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  <title>Consent and Safewords, and &quot;Verbal Consent&quot; and Me</title>
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  <description>Consent&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&apos;ve been reading some stuff about consent recently, and it&apos;s all about spoken consent and how that&apos;s super important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here&apos;s one of the articles I&apos;m talking about:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://disabling-queer.dreamwidth.org/737.html&quot;&gt;http://disabling-queer.dreamwidth.org/737.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And a Good response on Tumblr:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://littlemissmutant.tumblr.com/post/9441620674/autostraddle-how-i-learned-to-talk-in-bed-why-this&quot;&gt;http://littlemissmutant.tumblr.com/post/9441620674/autostraddle-how-i-learned-to-talk-in-bed-why-this&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class=&quot;cut-wrapper&quot;&gt;&lt;span style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;span-cuttag___1&quot; class=&quot;cuttag&quot;&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-open&quot;&gt;(&amp;nbsp;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-text&quot;&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;https://cereus.dreamwidth.org/9424.html#cutid1&quot;&gt;Bunch of Personal Musings About BDSM stuff - not graphic&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;b class=&quot;cut-close&quot;&gt;&amp;nbsp;)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style=&quot;display: none;&quot; id=&quot;div-cuttag___1&quot; aria-live=&quot;assertive&quot;&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;img src=&quot;https://www.dreamwidth.org/tools/commentcount?user=cereus&amp;ditemid=9424&quot; width=&quot;30&quot; height=&quot;12&quot; alt=&quot;comment count unavailable&quot; style=&quot;vertical-align: middle;&quot;/&gt; comments</description>
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