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Consent

I've been reading some stuff about consent recently, and it's all about spoken consent and how that's super important.

Here's one of the articles I'm talking about:

http://disabling-queer.dreamwidth.org/737.html

And a Good response on Tumblr:

http://littlemissmutant.tumblr.com/post/9441620674/autostraddle-how-i-learned-to-talk-in-bed-why-this


Bunch of Personal Musings About BDSM stuff - not graphic )
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I like e-mail the best - although the advantage of IM is that you get instant feedback - so the whole conversation sticks tightly to the curves of what exactly you're both interested in.  But it doesn't tend to be as deep.  Mostly I notice there are so many more things I can say when I'm writing instead of talking. 

I've brought up ideas in writing that are much more complex than what I typically speak.  Due to the fact that any given syllable can not come out - even though I've sent the signal to my mouth - or it can come out bass-ackwards.

Weirdly enough -  actually knowing the other person a long time makes it easier.

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